Reading is an unparalleled pleasure. There’s little else in life that can ground and inspire you at once. I find that no matter what I need, reading always seems to be the salve. Stressed? Cozy up with a book. A lack of motivation? Head straight to the self-help shelves. While it can be hard to prioritize reading when our attention is divided among so much, I consider it a key habit in my everyday wellness routine. And clearly, our team of bibliophiles does as well. That’s why I had to tap our editors for their thoughts on the best books of 2023.
Our Slack channels, email threads, and chats IRL often drift to the topic of reading. Whether it’s social strategy or content planning, everything can segue into the books we can’t put down. We read not only to learn, but to experience worlds outside of our own—coming back to our own lives with a greater empathy and understanding of others’ stories. Otherwise said: books offer us a gift and level of connection that little else can.
The Best Books of 2023, According to Our Editors
Whether or not you caught the book bug this year, there’s a beautiful truth about reading: it’s a habit you can always return to. So many of us think about reading the same way we do working out. There’s just not enough time! And sure, while a busy day might not allow for an hours-long reading marathon, pockets of time do present themselves. Whether it’s in the five minutes between meetings or in the parking lot for school pick-up, we just have to be more intentional with how we make space for what’s important. Swap your scroll for a few minutes spent reading. You’ll never go back.
So, if you’re wondering whether our Goodreads looked anything like yours or you simply want to update your TBR for the year ahead, keep reading for the best books of 2023 that our editors couldn’t put down. There’s something for everyone.
Cleopatra and Frankenstein
The way this book BROKE me and somehow put me back together again. I’m a girl who goes hard for the “no plot, just vibes” genre, and Coco Mellors perfected it beautifully in this debut novel. Expect stylistic writing, a devastating narrative, strangely lovable characters, and an ending that leaves you feeling empty but paradoxically understood. (Trust me, just read it.) — Isabelle, Managing Editor
Dear Edward
My favorite kind of novel is one that feels so close to reality that you can imagine yourself in the plot line—which is what made Dear Edward so heartbreaking, and also so beautiful. This is the story of a boy who has to learn to live again after an unimaginable tragedy and answers the question that we all ask ourselves: how could you find strength to fully live life when you’ve lost everything? — Camille, Editor-in-Chief
The Wrath & the Dawn
Khalid, the young king of Khorasan, takes a new bride each night only to have her executed at sunrise, until a girl named Shahrzad volunteers to marry him. But she does so with a plan to take revenge for the murder of her best friend and the many other brides before her. This was a surprisingly quick and enthralling read that is more enchanting than thriller-esque. The storytelling is beautiful, each of the characters is intriguing, and I finished this story wanting to talk to all my friends about it. — Suruchi, Food Editor
Good Inside
We’re currently in the thick of navigating life with a “threenager” with another little one on the way—emotions are high and patience is low. SOS. Life is full and this book continues to provide solace, practical tips, and creative ways to support our growing toddler. Although I’ve mostly steered from parenting books, this is a valuable, relatable resource I often turn to. If you need empowerment, empathy, or a reminder that your children are good inside, this is worth the shelf space. — Edie, Wellness Editor
The Creative Act
I’ve always been a fan of Rick Rubin, so I was quick to get my hands on this book when it first came out in January. It turned out to be the perfect New Year’s read, full of creative inspiration and tangible advice on how to embrace your inner artist. — Michelle, Executive Producer
Hello Beautiful
Think: Little Women but with a modern and all-too-realistic narrative. Hello Beautiful was such a thought-provoking book that touches on realities hard to address in print. It’s a slower read, but one that will imprint on the way you look at realistic fiction. — Casey, Editorial Intern
Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication
I’m fascinated by the topic of charisma—what gives certain people that secret sauce of magnetism and likability? In this fascinating book, Van Edwards breaks it down, and what I love about this book is that it’s full of surprises. If you want to unlock the secrets to captivating a room, being a leader, and conveying confidence, so much of it is in the body language and vocal inflections that most of us are unaware of. And it turns out, we can subtly tweak those cues to have more influence. — Camille, Editor-in-Chief
The Guest
If you also devoured The Girls, then you’re well aware that Emma Cline is capable of weaving together a fast-paced narrative through the development of her characters alone. This relatively short read moves quickly, driven by the desperation of its protagonist to find a place for herself in an unforgiving world. — Isabelle, Managing Editor
The Trouble with Hating You
I’m not usually one for rom-com type books, but this one hooked me right away with lovable characters and a classic enemies-to-lovers arc. The main characters’ banter and individual storylines come together in the best way. This was a fun read for anyone looking for a rom-com novel that celebrates culture, friendship, and strong characters you find yourself rooting for chapter after chapter. — Suruchi, Food Editor
The Almanack of Naval Ravikant
I was late to the party on this one but am so glad I finally picked it up. I’ve never highlighted and annotated a book so much in my life! I found it to be an incredible source of wisdom on how to build wealth, cultivate happiness, and live a life led by your core values. — Michelle, Executive Producer
It’s easy to know if someone is a book lover. And that’s because readers love to talk about reading. (I should know.) No matter if your bibliophile friend gets reccos from #booktok, Amazon reviews, or an actual librarian, they are always going to appreciate a gift that fuels their bookworm passions. Lucky for you, I am a Real Life Reader so I’ve got preeeetty good insight to help you find the best gifts for readers.
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18 Gifts for Readers Your Most Bookish Friends Will Love
When shopping for the readers in your life, it’s natural to think first: books. (Of course!) But… there comes the inevitable issue of knowing whether or not they’ll enjoy it—or if they’ve already read it in the first place. To ensure you find a foolproof present, consult our roundup of creative and unique gifts for readers. These ideas are all the motivation they’ll need to cozy up for hours on end.
Every product is curated with care by our editors and we’ll always give an honest opinion, whether gifted or purchased ourselves. If you buy something through our links, we may earn a small commission at no cost to you.
Papier Pause Bookmark
Every zealous reader needs a good bookmark. Ensure they never lose their place with this sturdy brass marker. It’s a sweet reminder that time spent reading is never wasted.
Casa Zuma Harvester Mug (Set of 4)
No true reading sesh is complete without a warm beverage. These unglazed, one-of-a-kind mugs beautifully house everything from hot cider to coffee to yes—a boozy hot cocoa. Whatever helps them cozy up best.
Haven Well Within Flyaway Cardigan
A soft sweater is every bibliophile’s best friend. Give them the gift of stylish and flattering comfort with this elegant cardigan that pairs perfectly with everything—leggings, included.
Ideal Bookshelf Print Classic Novels
I’ve long loved the Ideal Bookshelf series. Because when you’re serious about your TBR, nothing delights more than a well-curated library. Enjoy the classics in all their glory with this vibrant canvas. (Bonus: no framing necessary.)
Woven Cozy Throw Blanket
I’ve loved many a blanket over the years (my collection of comfort is ever-growing), but nothing delights more than this woven checked throw. The vibrant colors and patterns—with five options to choose from—offer the perfect pop of joy to any reading nook.
Harney & Sons Vanilla Comoro Decaffeinated Black Tea
The winter sees my coffee habit dwindling in favor of fragrant, smooth-bodied teas. This blend’s light touches of vanilla epitomize the season—and the tin makes a lovely pen holder once the leaves are used up.
Jane Austen’s Table
Any book lover can appreciate the whit and artistry of a classic Austen novel. And for the true Pride & Prejudice die-hards, this cookbook is the perfect addition to their shelves. Brimming with sweet and savory pastries, comforting sweets, and new culinary discoveries like “whim-wham” (spoiler: it’s delish), this book is a treasure trove of inspiration for the kitchen and beyond.
My reading uniform consists of a warm sweater, cozy leggings, and these soft and fuzzy slippers. The slide style is chic while still offering max comfort. Choose from four colors and expect to see these in all their Instagram stories from now until spring.
Byredo Bibliothèque
Candles are an essential complement to the ultimate reading experience. And while you’re welcome to select from any scent, nothing beats a blend that captures the essence of our happy place: the library. Top notes of plum and cinnamon mix with a base of birch, patchouli, and vanilla for a scent that’ll sweep you off to another world.
Flexilight Rechargeable Black Dots Booklight
When a book is truly addicting, I won’t be able to fall asleep until hours after my partner has gone to bed. I know it’s a relatable issue, so to ensure a good night’s rest for all, this flexible, easy-to-use light is the perfect stocking stuffer.
The best gifts for readers help your recipients set the perfect vibe for a relaxing reading hour. This white stoneware teapot is thoughtfully designed with a removable tea strainer, so there’s nothing standing between them and the binge-read ahead.
Rooms of Their Own: Where Great Writers Write
The fastest way to become a better writer is to read more often. For those who write as many words as they consume, this book is sure to elevate the entire experience. From attics to studies to yes—even the bathtub, this book is proof that inspiration can be found anywhere.
City Book Tote
If totes are their functional and aesthetic weakness, these are the ideal addition to their collection. Select from NYC, Chicago, Seattle, Philadelphia, or San Francisco. Each bag is a sweet representation of these literary hubs.
Storybook DIY Kit
As a reading-obsessed gal, I’m tempted to buy two of everything on this list—one for my lucky recipient and the other for myself. And though holiday budgeting is keeping that temptation at bay, it’s inevitable: this DIY storybook kit will be mine. These 3D wooden puzzles are so fun to put together. Once complete, they also double as an ambient light for the nocturnal readers among us.
Book Nook Reading Valet
They don’t need this, but… they need it. If you’re book-obsessed yourself, then you know: gifts for readers are both nice-to-haves and absolute essentials. While yes, they can prop their book on the armchair and store their coffee mug on the side table, why not make life all the easier? With this valet, anywhere can immediately become their dream reading nook.
Bibliophiles all know this truth: there’s no limit to how long you can spend in a library. To help them curate the cozy vibes at home, gift this pepper, vanilla, and cedar wood candle that’s an invitation to crack open their latest read.
Real Dried Pressed Flower Bookmark
Every reader needs a bookmark because NO they will NOT fold that page. Select this sweet and stylish pressed flower pick. It’s proof you have their books’ interests in mind.
When it comes to supporting future book lovers, start ’em early. This sweet collection of young reader classics is illustrated by Rifle Paper Co.’s principal artist, Anna Bond (no wonder you recognize the design). The set makes a lovely addition to any child’s bookshelf.
This post was originally published on November 27, 2022, and has since
I’m your typical millennial TikTok user. You know, the one who consumes the most viral videos when they emerge weeks later in my Instagram feed. I’m still mildly wary of the platform where I am decidedly a lurker, not yet an active creator. I forget about TikTok for days on end, partially in an honest attempt to not get sucked into another social media platform but also because I am still slightly bewildered by it all. However, there is one thing that entices me to open the app. Fellow elder millennials, listen up. Let me tell you about a magical little place called #BookTok.
In a nutshell: BookTok is a (massive) corner of the app where users post quick videos, reviewing and recommending novels that generally fall within the genre of young adult and romance. They’re passionate and creative—and there are even fantasy accounts dedicated to fan-favorite characters featured in the most popular TikTok books.
It’s a collection of young, impassioned readers inspiring countless others to join the club, of which they are in packs. (The hashtag is currently sitting at nearly 190 billion views). And while it can’t quite be quantified, we do know that BookTok is driving book sales and even publishing deals thanks to this wildfire word-of-mouth trend.
Featured image from our interview with Roti Brown.
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What is a TikTok book?
A TikTok book is quite simply a book that has organically gained popularity on the app. This is very much about judging a book by its cover, and there’s no shame in that. Once you’ve spent some time in this world, you can easily spot the signs. There is often a fantasy element with romance at the center. You’ll find book recommendations based on popular tropes like “forced proximity,” “who did this to you,” and of course, “enemies to lovers.”
Why is BookTok so popular?
Like any good trend, BookTok simply makes reading cool again. It’s introducing young readers to a world beyond a syllabus. One where they can escape their own lives through a relatable main character on a fantastical journey. The pandemic changed everything—including the way we read and hear about books. The BookTok community bridged the gap with videos titled, “books that will make you fall in love with reading,” and “books that left me heartbroken and shattered for days.” In short, BookTok positions reading as accessible—aspirational, even.
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The 21 Best BookTok Recommendations to Pick Up, Stat
Time for the big reveal! I recruited two Camille Styles editors and all-around book lovers Bridget Chambers and Isabelle Eyman to help me review as many TikTok bestsellers as possible. These are our 21 best BookTok recommendations. They are all terribly juicy, engrossing, and oh-so-perfect for the cozy reading season.
1. The Guest List by Lucy Foley
Genre: Thriller & Suspense
Review: As much as I love to curl up with a book, it’s rare that I [neglect my family to] read an entire book in a single day. But this one had me hooked from line one—I just had to know who did it. Even a slight predictability couldn’t keep me from thoroughly enjoying the ride. If you like a plot that takes off like a runaway train and keeps pace until the very end, you’ll love this whodunnit where the perfectly cast Irish setting takes center stage. — Brittany
Coming Soon: To a television near you? The author hinted that The Guest List has been optioned as a TV series—time will tell.
2. Every Summer After by Carley Fortune
Genre: Fiction
Review:Every Summer After is the perfect summertime read about a summertime romance between best friends. It’s People We Meet on Vacation meets The Summer I Turned Pretty, and had me incredibly attached to and invested in every character. My only complaint is that the ending felt a bit rushed, but that’s probably because I didn’t want it to end at all. — Bridget
3. Mexican Gothic by Silvia Moreno-Garcia
Genre: Horror Fiction
Review: October is the perfect time to pick up this slightly scary and yet very engrossing novel. It’s the perfect book to correspond with spooky season without being pure horror. Personally, I’m not a horror fan but I do love a good mystery with a dark and looming house involved. This one does get a little bit icky but it didn’t keep me up at night. I’d read it again. — Brittany
Coming Soon: To a streaming service near you—Mexican Gothic is in development as a Hulu Original Series produced by Kelly Ripa and Mark Consuelos.
4. The Wedding Date by Jasmine Guillory
Genre: Fiction Romance
Review: I was on the hunt for a breezy romcom and had high hopes for The Wedding Date. The meet-cute is indeed cute but unfortunately, I found it a bit eye-roll-inducing throughout. I didn’t find the characters to be likable or super reliable and the open-door scenes felt more gratuitous than anything else. However, the end was (again) cute and it was a decent palette cleanser between novels. — Brittany
5. TheMidnight Library by Matt Haig
Genre: Science Fiction
Review: Along with the stellar reviews and numerous recommendations, I was first drawn to the magic-adjacent aspect of this story. A library where you can “try on” different lives? I needed to know more. But for some reason, I just never found myself lost in the story. Perhaps it’s because I didn’t want to—I found it quite sad (if not also beautiful) and a bit predictable. Still, I do enjoy Matt Haig’s writing style, and yes, I’m in the minority as The Midnight Library has amassed nearly 200 thousand reviews and 4.5 stars on Amazon. (Trigger warning: the story centers around an attempted suicide.) — Brittany
Coming Soon: To a movie theater near you—StudioCanal and Blueprint Pictures have optioned the film rights.
6. The Four Winds by Kristin Hannah
Genre: Historical Fiction
Review: This book is a beautiful, heartbreaking, empowering epic-adjacent story and I thoroughly enjoyed every moment. I typically avoid books that will 100% make me cry but with Kirstin Hannah, it always feels earned and worthwhile. This one was made all the more better with some perfect casting in my head, Gwendoline Christie (aka, Game of Thrones’ Brienne of Tarth) as Elsa Wolcott. — Brittany
7. The Nightengale by Kristin Hannah
Genre: Historical Fiction
Review: Bridget has long sung the praises of this beautiful novel and I am in utter agreement. It is a story stunningly told of two sisters in war-torn France, where both the characters and the setting vividly come to life in beautiful, easy prose. If you’ve yet to pick it up, this is your sign. — Brittany
Coming Soon: To a movie theater near you—real-life sisters Dakota and Elle Fanning have been cast as Vianne and Isabelle.
8. Book Lovers by Emily Henry
Genre: Fiction Romance
Review: What’s a TikTok book roundup without an Emily Henry novel? I’m new to the delightful world of Emily Henry, I must admit, and this was the perfect introduction. Henry masters the art of the rom-com. The story is fun and witty, the characters’ nuances feel earned, and the lightness is well-balanced with grounded storytelling. I’m officially joining the Emily Henry fan club. — Brittany
9. Verity by Colleen Hoover
Genre: Psychological Thriller
Review: This might be a very controversial opinion, but Verity is by far my favorite Colleen Hoover novel. While Hoover is most popular for her romance novels, Verity is a thriller that kept me turning pages long after my bedtime… and then made me too scared to turn off the lights. It’s one of those books that has you thinking about it long after you read the last page and contains one of my favorite endings to discuss with friends. — Bridget
10. It Ends With Us by Colleen Hoover
Genre: Fiction Romance
Review: I have heard and seen more about It Ends With Us than any other TikTok book. It’s in the process of becoming a movie, and I have no doubt that the movie will garner the same level of attention. Perhaps because the hype was so intense, I felt slightly let down by the book, considering I didn’t have the same visceral reaction that everyone else seems to have. This book does deserve a trigger warning, however, considering it discusses some harsh realities about domestic abuse. — Bridget
Coming Soon: A movie, potentially. The rights were purchased by Justin Baldoni’s company Wayfarer Entertainment in 2019.
11. Love and Other Words by Christina Lauren
Genre: Fiction Romance
Review:Love and Other Words is a very similar read as Every Summer After, which is probably why I liked it so much. I’m a sucker for a good best friends-turned-lovers plot, and Macy’s and Elliot’s story is one of my favorites. They are a testament that some bonds truly can never be broken and if something is meant to be, it will be. Even though it’s a fictional story, it warmed my heart to the fullest. — Bridget
12. A Court of Thorns and Roses The Series by Sarah J. Maas
Genre: Fantasy, Romance
Review: And now we come to the series that launched a thousand (more like a million) BookTokers. I decided to pick up the first book in the series to see what all the hype was about. The PLAN was to stop there and read a few more TikTok books to provide the most reviews I could muster. Friends, I have let you down. Or have I… ?
I am currently savoring book five in this ongoing series. The hype was real, at least for me. I love a plot-driven, world-building, good versus evil story. I love a character who’s special in ways yet to be revealed. I love a love story with tension (that enemies-to-lovers trope is a good one). If any of those sound appealing to you, welcome to the world of—as the BookTokers call it—ACOTR. (P.S. It gets a little spicy.) — Brittany
Coming Soon: To a streaming service near you. Hulu has optioned the rights with Outlander showrunner Ron Moore at the helm.
13. Throne of Glass The Series by Sarah J. Maas
Genre: Young Adult Fantasy, Romance
Review: Before there was ACOTR, there was the Throne of Glass series. I actually read this series first even though it’s not the most popular of the two. And I enjoyed it for a few reasons, one of which is a bit unexpected.
You see, Sarah J. Maas began writing her first novel, the first in this series, at sixteen years old. Yep. And what I found to be truly engaging throughout the series was simply witnessing her writing grow and mature with each book. I also loved the unexpected twists and turns that Maas is now known for. There are seven books in the series and my favorite character (Yrene, perfectly imagined in my head as Zendayah) shows up in book six. — Brittany
P.S. Despite my love for the story, I was always totally thrown off by the covers and it seems marketing got the memo. The books re-release in February 2023 with sleek new covers.
14. The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo by Taylor Jenkins Reid
Genre: Historical Fiction
Review:The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo was the first #BookTok book that I read. It immediately transported me to the glory days of Old Hollywood and sucked me into the world of the rich and famous that isn’t as fabulous as it’s chalked up to be. Evelyn Hugo is a character who everybody will feel and root for, envy and pity. Fun fact: All of Taylor Jenkins Reid’s books have characters that cross over from novel to novel, so Malibu Rising fans will recognize Mick Riva as one of the seven husbands. — Bridget
Coming Soon: To a streaming service near you—Netflix is developing the film.
15. The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue by V. E. Schwab
Genre: Fantasy Fiction
Review: This novel easily features one of the most intriguing elevator pitches: a young woman makes a deal for immortality. In exchange, she’s doomed to be forgotten… until she walks into a bookstore 300 years later and a boy remembers her name. Right?! Listen, it delivers. I don’t want to give anything away but if you like a book with mystery, magic, and a little spice, this is the one for you. Another good one for spooky season. — Brittany
Coming Soon: To a movie theater near your—eOne acquired rights to the movie, which will be produced by Gerard Butler’s company G-Base.
16. Funny You Should Ask by Elissa Sussman
Genre: Fiction Romance
Review: Imagine getting assigned to write a profile on your celebrity crush, having him/her fall for you, spending an entire weekend with him/her, and then reuniting a decade later for a follow-up interview. It’s something that my 15-year-old dreams were made of, but with clever dialogue and a little spice. Totally unrealistic and slightly cheesy, but one of my favorite novels to escape real life. — Bridget
17. Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir
Genre: Science Fiction, Adventure
Review: This book goes in my top 10 of all time and I will forever recommend it to anyone who asks. It is so many things at once which makes it wildly appealing. I’m talking laugh-out-loud funny, endearing, adventurous, and leaves you in awe of the resilience of the human spirit. But there’s also a compelling mystery and an entire “lone man must save the world” plotline. I truly enjoyed Weirs’ first book, The Martian, and this one is even better. — Brittany
Coming Soon: To a movie theater near you—with none other than RYAN GOSLING in the lead role.
18. Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow: A Novel by Gabrielle Zevin
Genre: Contemporary Fiction
Review: I just finished reading this buzzy book about two friends who create video games and, let me tell you, it was a good read. It’s contemporary but still creates (literally and figuratively) its own type of world, and having no video game knowledge myself, I was excited to dive into something new. There were truly just so many layers to the story and now having finished, I can say it was a really beautiful experience. I went into it knowing very little but some may appreciate a trigger warning. If that’s you, just do a little research before you pick it up. — Brittany
Coming Soon: To a movie theater near you—Paramount Pictures acquired the movie rights for a cool $2 million.
19. The Five-Star Weekend by Elin Hilderbrand
Genre: Romantic Fiction
Review: While I usually prefer a hard copy rather than an audiobook, The Five-Star Weekend was the perfect listen. Elin Hilderbrand is very much worth the hype and writes about Nantucket in a way that’s dreamy and wistful without falling into a cliché. I’m loving the transition to books about women exploring new beginnings in mid-life, and Hilderbrand executed the trope perfectly. If you want drama and a heartwarming narrative with female friendship at the center, pick this up. — Isabelle
20. I’m Glad My Mom Died by Jennette McCurdy
Genre: Memoir
Review: Of course you’re going to pick up a memoir with such a proactive title. And frankly, you’ll be glad you did. Child star Jennette McCurdy (of iCarly fame) doesn’t hold anything back. In its pages, she reveals the truths behind the glitz of television and the reality of growing up with an abusive mother. It’s admittedly hard to read at times, but McCurdy writes honestly and openly about the challenge of protecting your own mental and emotional well-being against a parent you’re expected to trust. — Isabelle
21. My Year of Rest and Relaxation by Ottessa Moshfegh
Genre: Literary fiction
Review: Of all the best BookTok recommendations, this will forever be my go-to. Ottessa Moshfegh writes like no other contemporary author I’ve ever picked up. And this strange not-quite-a-plot narrative (only vibes) pulls you in from the beginning. The writing encapsulates you with the unnamed narrator’s loneliness and search for meaning, and it’ll have you reflecting on the purpose behind every moment. It gets existential at times as all the best BookTok recommendations should. — Isabelle
This post was originally published on October 6, 2022, and has since been updated.
There’s nothing better than reading (cooking, baking, movie-watching, and cozying up) in the fall. Otherwise stated: Everything is better in the fall. The elusive season catches us just as we tire of the summer heat and before we’re prepped to hibernate for winter. Autumn is the perfect respite from it all. And though it passes us by all too quickly, the best fall books are the perfect way to celebrate this special time of year.
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What books should I read in autumn?
During the short, leaf-strewn months of September through November, I want nothing more than to curl up with a blanket and a tall stack of cozy, comforting, and sometimes spooky novels. While some may designate the ubiquitous pumpkin spice latte the signal of the season, my mind shifts instead to romantic stories about a small town in New England, a thriller scattered with secrets, or books about book clubs where the unlikely protagonist finds connection, discovers hope, and leans into love.
As you can tell, there’s a certain mood, a specific vibe, and at times, a little magic that comes with the best fall books. While summer’s all about beach reads and the start of winter sees us diving deep into our tossed-aside pile of self-help books, my favorite fall books transport me like no other novel can.
So, in the middle of October and as we near the spookiest time of year (Halloween, y’all), I encourage you to add a few of the titles below to your TBR. If yours looks similar to mine, it’s likely an ever-growing list. But hey, when it comes to the best fall books, the more the merrier, right?
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The Best Fall Books To Cozy Up With
1. The Burnout by Sophie Kinsella
Genre: Romantic comedy
Sophie Kinsella of Shopaholic fame has spent her career writing her way through every romantic comedy cliché—all while adding her own spin of whit and humor throughout. Now, her 29th book—including titles written under her pen name, Madeleine Wickham—is perfectly of the era. Stressed out and at the end of her rope (sound relatable?), Sasha escape to the beach resort she loved as a child for some R&R. But when she meets Finn, a burnout himself but whose means of repair couldn’t be more different than Sasha’s, her neatly laid-out plans go awry. In, of course, all the best ways. It’s a little Eat, Pray, Love mixed with the enemies-to-lovers trope. I was obsessed.
Release Date: Available now
2. My Name Is Barbra by Barbra Streisand
Genre: Memoir
As you’ll quickly see from scrolling this list, 2023’s best fall books feature plenty of memoirs and biographies. I’ve always loved the genre as a means of accessing the complex lives and fascinating minds of those who drive our culture. And of course, very few people’s influence is quite as far-reaching as Barbara Streisand’s. Her highly-anticipated memoir recounts her rise to fame and the intimate ups and downs tracked through six decades as one of the most famous figures in the entertaining world.
Release Date: November 7th
3. The Book of (More) Delights by Ross Gay
Genre: Essays
Countless readers turn to Ross Gay for inspiration and wisdom on leading a more intentional, vibrant life. The same insights and guidance can be found in his latest release, The Book of (More) Delights. In its pages, Gay recounts the many things that, over the course of the year, have brought him peace and joy. From harvesting and sharing fruit with a neighbor to the nostalgic smell of his mother’s cookies, this book is a meditative journey through all the things that connect us to the world and provide our lives with meaning. It’s a beautiful follow-up to his first collection, The Book of Delights and would be a lovely gift for anyone looking to experience a little more joy in their everyday lives.
Release Date: Available now
4. Thicker Than Water by Kerry Washington
Genre: Memoir
There are those people who I’ve silently been begging to write a memoir for years. Kerry Washington? Top of my list. And while I love getting a behind-the-scenes view of her career as an actor, director, producer, and activist, it’s the intimate, emotional journey Washington invites you on that left me transformed by the last page. Her words are powerful, graceful, and tell the story of a woman filled with wisdom, but who remains ever-curious and open to the learnings of life.
Release Date: Available now
5. Madonna: A Rebel Life by Mary Gabriel
Genre: Biography
Sometimes, biographies are released and you wish they’d spent more time finding the best writer to tell this person’s story. And for someone as complex and truly larger than life as Madonna, reflecting that on the page is a tall order. Thankfully, Mary Gabriel is the perfect storyteller to capture this culture-defining icon. More than a pop star, Madonna rose to stardom while simultaneously giving shape to the 1980s evolution of feminism, forever changing how women expressed themselves. This biography looks to the past with gratitude while also paving the way for all Madonna has left to offer.
Release Date: Available now
6. Worthy by Jada Pinkett Smith
Genre: Memoir
Oftentimes, those in the public sphere are given a narrative they can’t escape that’s entirely different from the truth. Jada Pinkett Smith has experienced this uphill battle through much of her career, pushing back against all the many labels thrust upon her. Worthy offers a look into the life Pinkett Smith has led off-screen, reflecting on her upbringing, her marriage, and her triumphant fight for self-love all throughout.
Release Date: Available now
7. Absolution by Alice McDermott
Genre: Historical fiction
As we sadly know well, the world is rife with harrowing, horrific complexities. But oftentimes, only those on the frontline of tragedy have their stories shared. Absolution provides insight into the realities of life in Saigon during the Vietnam War. Told through the experiences of women across generations—Charlene, a corporate spouse and mother of three, Trica, newlywed of a rising attorney, and Charlene’s daughter 60 years later—this book offers a window into the tragic consequences to women on the periphery during and in the years after America’s interference in Southeast Asia. It’s heartbreaking, perspective-shifting, and ultimately questions the worth of our sacrifices in a broken world.
Release Date: Available now
8. Happiness Falls by Angie Kim
Genre: Mystery
If you’re looking for a spooky read this season, Happiness Falls is the most unique and thought-provoking take on the genre you’ll find. When the father of a Korean-American family in Virginia goes missing—and the only witness is unable to speak—it’s in uncovering the family’s secrets that the answers may be found. Full of drama and surprises at every turn, this isn’t simply a plot-driven mystery, but a rich telling of the abundant complexities of every family’s interior life.
Release Date: Available now
9. The Fraud by Zadie Smith
Genre: Historical fiction
Zadie Smith’s fiction is widely celebrated for being narratively compelling and critical of our contemporary world. The Fraud is set in 1860s London, with a criminal case driving its plot that sets the lower classes against the city’s financial elite. On the periphery of the case, but at the center of this novel’s action, is Eliza Touchet, a widow in her mid-60s, and Andrew Bogle, a formerly-enslaved Jamaican serving as a witness in the trial. The characters’ thoughts and interactions are charming and poignant—and if you read between the lines, you’ll likely uncover a few references to some of today’s key political figures.
Release Date: Available now
10. Extremely Online: The Untold Story of Fame, Influence, and Power on the Internet by Taylor Lorenz
Genre: Non-fiction, cultural commentary
My review in a nutshell: you need to read this book, stat. The longer story is that Taylor Lorenz is the ultimate authority on internet culture, having covered the vast and rapidly developing topic for the past decade. In Extremely Online, she dives deep into the many ways the digital world has not only impacted our lives in the real world but influenced large elements of ourselves that exist solely online. Lorenz examines and illuminates topics like the rise of mommy blogging, our shifting understanding of fame, and how the internet has transformed capitalism as we know it. The internet impacts everything we do in ways both known and unknown—and in her book, Lorenz reveals them all.
Release Date: Available now
11. Glossy: Ambition, Beauty, and the Inside Story of Emily Weiss’s Glossier by Marisa Meltzer
Genre: Non-fiction
Don’t tell me you’re not curious. Immediately upon seeing the pink, red, and white cover, I knew what this book would be about. And with the subtitle sharing more insight, it was clear I needed to pick it up immediately. In a world that’s gone from glorifying the girlboss to celebrating her fall from grace, Emily Weiss’ influence over the spheres of beauty and culture is a familiar story. But there’s little known behind the scenes of Weiss’ rise from Teen Vogue “superintern” to launching an industry-shifting beauty brand. Glossy gets all the deets, featuring interviews with former Glossier employees, investors, and Weiss herself to understand the inner workings of this widely-known woman that we, in fact, know nothing about. While it’s not specific to the season, if you’re going to invest in any of the best fall books, make this a priority.
Release Date: Available now
12. Remember Love: Words for Tender Times by Cleo Wade
Genre: Poetry and prose collection
Well-loved for her thoughtful and inspiring poems widely shared on Instagram and her debut poetry collection Heart Talk, Cleo Wade is back with the words and wisdom we all need to make it through challenging times. Remember Love is filled with reminders and epiphanies that speak to all experiences. From feeling lost to going through heartbreak, no emotion is left unturned in this raw but uplifting collection. Keep on your nightstand or coffee table and flip through whenever you need a few words of hope.
Release Date: Available now
13. Class: A Memoir of Motherhood, Hunger, and Higher Education by Stephanie Land
Genre: Memoir
Lauded for her powerful first memoir, Maid in which she recounted her escape from poverty and abuse in search of a better life for her and her daughter, Stephanie Land is back with Class. This time, Land continues her story by reflecting on the challenges of navigating higher education in America—the difficulty of prioritizing schoolwork while also living under the poverty line, focusing on studying without enough food, and working through our convoluted loan system. Her book explores survival with a new set of constraints while shedding light on the careful dance we have to do between our personal desires and professional goals.
Release Date: November 7th
14. Bright Young Women by Jessica Knoll
Genre: Thriller
Perfect for the fall, Bright Young Women pulls inspiration from Ted Bundy’s long string of murders. But where other retellings give the spotlight to the criminal himself, Jessica Knoll turns her attention to the remarkable women whose lives he cut short. The book brings together two women from across the country in their determined search for justice. It’s a page-turner you’ll plow through in just a few days (if that). I’m not joking: this may be the best of the best fall books.
Release Date: Available now
15. One Puzzling Afternoon by Emily Critchley
Genre: Mystery
In this beautiful story of aging and memory, eight-four-year-old Edie Green swears she’s been seeing her childhood best friend, Lucy Theddle—exactly as she was when she disappeared at 15. And though Edie’s family writes it off as one of her mix-ups, she’s intent on piecing together the truth of what really happened to Lucy before it’s too late.
Release Date: Available now
16. Wrong Place Wrong Time by Gillian McAllister
Genre: Thriller and suspense
This book came highly lauded by Camille Styles team member Brittany. And given her incredible taste in books, we all immediately picked it up. Spoiler: I was immediately pulled in before I even cracked open the book. It’s the perfect fall read about a mother who sees her son commit a murder. She doesn’t know who the victim is and she doesn’t know why her son did it. But time starts moving in reverse, and she has the chance to stop the crime before it happens. Every word is brilliant and every twist totally unexpected. All you need is a night with know plans to check this off your TBR—it’s that good.
Release Date: Available now
This post was originally published on October 12, 2022, and has since been updated.
While we’re a few official weeks into fall, I’m writing to you from my very first *actually cozy* day. The temps have dipped below 65, there’s color in the trees, and my craving for hot cider is justified. There’s little I wouldn’t give to experience the autumnal coziness year-round, (when it comes to fall, the “too much of a good thing” adage doesn’t apply). And while some may tell you there’s nothing better than indulging in a summer beach read, my fall reading list has that simple pleasure beat.
Fall exudes coziness—with our desire for all things comfy, wholesome, and warm reaching its peak. It only makes sense that now is the perfect time to plow through your TBR. But with the fall scene set just so, not just any books will do. We want to be scared, soothed, and set in a small town where characters wear turtlenecks and gather for knitting clubs in the local coffee shop. I’m talking about the classics, the horror, and the “no plot, just vibes” novels that make every short, dark day worth the cozy return.
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What books are best to read in the fall?
Every book is an opportunity to enjoy a little escape from the reality of our daily routines. We read to go places we’ve never been, experience contexts we’ve never known, and dive into the relationships and psyches of people entirely unlike our surrounding circle. But during the fall, in particular, it’s natural to gravitate toward books that echo the crisp weather and align with the season’s vibes. With Halloween on its way, horror, thrillers, and psychological fiction reads are perfect spooky material. The start of the school year falls in step with our love of anything academia. And of course, cuffing season is fast approaching, and there’s no better time than the fall get us in the mood—romantic fiction is a must.
With all of that in mind, I curated a fall reading list that offers something for everyone. Whether you take this season to indulge in Literature with a capital “L,” scratch your Hallmark romance itch, or enjoy a little scare, read on—these 15 reads are right up your alley.
Fun fact: I went to the same college as Sylvia Plath—and actually lived in her same dorm room. My fascination with the author certainly contributed to my English major, and I consider an annual re-read of The Bell Jar part of my continuing education. If you know anything about Sylvia Plath’s story of mental illness, literary fame, and the ultimate tragedy of her life, you’ll think of this as an autobiographical novel. And even if you don’t become a “Plathie,” you’ll still enjoy the fascinating peek into a woman weighed down by her own beautiful mind—as well as the horrific limitations of mid-century mental healthcare.
My Salinger Year by Joanna Rakoff
Genre: Memoir
I devour this book every time I read it—and proceed to encourage everyone to add it to their fall reading list. While the narrative relies on some of the tired tropes of the publishing industry on the cusp of the 2000s, you’ll immediately be mesmerized by the entirely different world Joanna Rakoff stepped into when she took a job as an assistant to the literary agent for J.D. Salinger. It’s a heart-warming and intriguing coming-of-age story in which a young woman discovers her own voice by mimicking that of one of the world’s most famous authors.
Meredith, Alone by Claire Alexander
Genre: Psychological Fiction
If you want to cry, then laugh, then cry and laugh again, pick up Meredith, Alone. It was one of my favorite books of last year, and though I plowed through it in December, it’s a perfect fall read. The premise: Meredith hasn’t left her home in three years, but little by little—through the help of friends old and new—she learns to trust the world again. Claire Alexander does an incredible job of slowly teasing out elements of Meredith’s backstory, making it impossible to put down as you dive deeper into this lovable, complicated character.
Happy Hour by Marlowe Granados
Genre: Coming-of-age
One of my favorite books of all time, Happy Hour perfectly epitomizes the TikTok category of “no plot, just vibes” books. Meaning: while the book doesn’t track a clear progression of events, you dive deep into the mesmerizing, desperate world of two young, twenty-something friends—Isabelle and Gala—as they navigate life in New York City through charm, whit, and an unsettling brilliance.
When asked about her thoughts on this categorization, author Marlowe Granados shared with Elle, “When you put it all together, there’s not this traditional structure of rising and falling action, because I’m not interested in that. All the books I love aren’t traditional in that way, and I’m open to exploring non-linear expressions and narratives.”
My Year of Rest and Relaxation by Ottessa Moshfegh
Genre: Literary fiction
To be clear: this is a must-add to your fall reading list as is everything else Ottessa Moshfegh has penned. (Eileen and her latest, Lapvona are two more faves.) Immediately upon reading, you’ll discover an entirely different sort of book, where the constraints of prose and plot are quickly bypassed. Set in New York City in 2000 and 2001, My Year of Rest and Relaxation follows the narrator (unnamed) as she seeks to spend a year asleep—induced by a cocktail of medications—to reset her life. What she discovers is a way forward in a world that’s often difficult to bear.
Cleopatra and Frankenstein by Coco Mellors
Genre: Literary fiction
If you love anything Sally Rooney, Cleopatra and Frankenstein is a natural progression. Cleo and Frank dive headfirst into a seemingly mismatched pairing. (She, a beautiful, young painter, and he, twenty years her senior, leading a life of excess and wealth.) Their romance impulsively turns to marriage, dissolving quickly into a complex and challenging relationship. As the reader, you want desperately for each to experience some semblance of happiness—and at the end, you discover just how complex true satisfaction in life can be.
Sweetbitter by Stephanie Danler
Genre: Novel
If you love food and are fascinated by the behind-the-scenes hustle of New York City kitchens, Sweetbitter is your go-to fall read. The novel tracks Tess, a twenty-two-year-old as she learns the rules of the road—and life—working at a celebrated New York restaurant. The book is full of glitz and glam but reveals the elite industry’s truths of chaos and grime. But the beyond being an exposé of the restaurant industry itself, Sweetbitter perfectly encapsulates a young woman’s pursuit of place and identity in an oftentimes unforgiving world.
The Haunting of Hill House by Shirley Jackson
Genre: Horror fiction
Behind (almost) every great Netflix series is the book that inspired it. Many agree that Shirley Jackson is the queen of horror—she’s the author of “The Lottery,” and clearly deserving of the moniker. The Haunting of Hill House takes the reader through a perfectly executed example of the haunted house story, and it even earned Stephen King’s seal of approval. Paranormal activity, psychological suspense—it’s fall horror perfection.
Tom Lake by Ann Patchett
Genre: Coming-of-age story
My book club read this in September and it’s one of the few books that’s earned the group’s unanimous appreciation. (Read all the way to the end of this fall reading list, and you’ll know how deep my Ann Patchett obsession runs.) In Tom Lake, her latest release, Patchett’s ability to convey the endurance of love is coupled with meditations on the ties between family members and how these bonds shape the outcomes of our lives.
The House Across the Lake by Riley Sager
Genre: Psychological thriller and mystery
There’s no time better than the cool, crisp nights of fall to cuddle up with a thriller. The House Across the Lake? An all-time best for the season Though I read it when it initially came out last June, I have no shame in plowing through it (again) this fall. Starting with the expected plot of the protagonist quitting the city for the calming (and eerily quiet) woods, this novel offers a compelling departure in its many twists and turns.
Casey Fletcher (said protagonist who settles in Vermont), befriends the glamorous couple across the lake. But when the wife mysteriously disappears, what initially looked like a perfect marriage suddenly becomes the center of a psychologically suspenseful and constantly shifting plot.
Wuthering Heights by Emily Brontë
Genre: Gothic fiction
Though you may have left this book behind in college, I can’t stress it enough: pick it back up immediately. While it was written nearly 200 years ago and the nuances of life in the landed gentry are no longer common knowledge, the romance and very human emotions put on display are always relevant. If you really want to dive deep into the Gothic romances this fall, follow it up with Jane Eyre.
All Good People Here by Ashley Flowers
Genre: Crime fiction and mystery
Though this was a new release last year, I didn’t get my hands on it until a week ago. And… I finished it in a day. With Ashley Flowers’ extensive experience investigating crimes both solved and cold, she displays an incredible ability to build a suspenseful, shocking narrative—even in her debut novel.
A journalist who’s moved back to her hometown, Margot Davies becomes obsessed with the infamous murder of January Jacobs. She goes to extensive lengths to find the solve the case—and bring the killer to justice. Along the way, she discovers that many of the townspeople she thought she knew are hiding twisted, chilling secrets.
The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald
Genre: Literary fiction
There’s no better time than autumn to re-read the classics. Though I’m quick to recommend Fitzgerald’s other novels before The Great Gatsby, nothing encapsulates the season more than the book’s standout line: “Life starts all over again when it gets crisp in the fall.” I’ll admit, every time I turn back to this book, I’m always in awe at its ability to capture the sense of loss and longing that can exist between people who desperately seek happiness in all the wrong places.
Persuasion by Jane Austen
Genre: Romance novel
IMO—this is Jane Austen at her best. I don’t need to tell you that she’s the queen of romance and putting women on their rightful pedestal. Persuasion gives readers an opportunity to indulge in a second-chance love. It’s witty (of course) and convoluted in a way that only Austen can make enjoyable. (Who’s married to who, again?) For anyone new to Jane Austen, you can certainly start with Pride & Prejudice, but I’d say Persuasion is the right choice.
The Dutch House by Ann Patchett
Genre: Historical fiction
I listened to this in the car with my mom on a drive across the country, and though I loved Tom Hanks’ narration, it’s even more enjoyable to curl up with on my couch. It’s dark and haunting, but displays the power of a sibling bond to overcome all odds. Forced into the same poverty their parents escaped, Danny and Maeve struggle to leave behind their past even as they experience inklings of hope and success. The Dutch House looks at the complexities that can exist between families, and ultimately asks if love is really what’s most important.
While I’m always looking for the best self-help books to inspire my journey, in certain circles, I’ve found that the genre gets a bad rap. I, for one, have always been a firm believer that when we seek out and surround ourselves with inspiration, it’s that intention itself that can have a transformative effect. Of course, growth also happens when we take in concrete tips that can help us gradually and consistently move in the direction of positive change.
But as we all know, getting started is usually the hardest part. When I’m stuck, deciding to move forward can take all my energy. We worry about doing the wrong thing and obsess over inconsequential details because we’re afraid to just do something.
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50 Self-Help Books to Change Your Life
So what’s the solution to this super-glued feeling all of us experience in our lives? Well, we have to take action. According to this article, “taking action is proactive. It values forward motion and momentum over wondering and worrying. Taking action puts you firmly in the driver’s seat and helps give you the confidence you need to tackle whatever is holding you back.”
Once we get the ball rolling on a task, the momentum to complete that task comes naturally and pushes us to the finish line. Something that seemed so impossible before is now achievable. Sounds pretty simple when you put it that way.
With that in mind, we’ve gathered a list of our favorite self-help books that’ll inspire you to get your ball rolling toward a more productive future. These motivational self-help books are perfect for reading any time there’s an area of your life where you’re feeling a little stuck.
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The Creative Act: A Way of Being by Rick Rubin
I had this book recommended to me no less than 10 times before I finally picked it up. Rick Rubin, the famed record executive and co-founder of Def Jam Recordings, compiled all of his most potent creative wisdom into a single (admittedly hefty) book. It reads like poetry, and you’ll be inspired to share snaps of the pages to your Instagram story. Plus, when you’re done, it makes for a stunning coffee table book.
The Power of Moments by Chip Heath & Dan Heath
This book dives deep into the psychology behind experiences—why certain moments impact us more than others and how to create these memorable experiences instead of leaving our lives to chance. It’s a fascinating study of free will and autonomy over our lives, putting us in the driver’s seat to make every moment count.
Surrounded by Idiots by Thomas Erikson
This has to be the most insightful behavioral science book I’ve read to date. Thomas Erikson presents an insightful study of the communication patterns that divide all humans into four categories: Reds are dominant and commanding, Yellows are social and optimistic, Greens are laid back and friendly, and Blues are analytical and precise. By understanding ourselves—and those we interact with—in this way, we can speak more effectively, persuasively, and compassionately to everyone in our lives.
Build the Life You Want: The Art and Science of Getting Happier by Arthur C. Brooks and Oprah Winfrey
It’s a fact that any self-help book with Oprah Winfrey as co-author is an immediate yes. Build the Life You Want is a perfect example of the rule, breaking down the journey of building a happy life into a science. If feeling content and satisfied has always felt like an abstract pursuit, this is the guidebook you need. It’s the perfect read if you’re feeling stuck, as the pages provide you with actionable steps to improve every area of your life—from family to friendship to work and faith.
You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay
This Is How You Heal details the art of healing. While that process can possibly be ignited by a tragedy or disruption, it’s not a moment in which one becomes all-knowing or aware of their new path. Instead, healing is a journey, one that releases beliefs we may have once held close to start to uncover our best and most authentic selves.
The Courage to be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga
One of the most challenging aspects of interpersonal relationships is accepting when your ideas or beliefs may not be shared by those around you. The Courage to be Disliked encapsulates. It uses nineteenth-century psychology to develop a narrative between a philosopher and a young man who aims to see beyond society’s expectations and define his life’s direction.
The Power of Fun: How To Feel Alive Again by Catherine Price
Many of us go through life hyper-focused on success and power, so much so that we forget to enjoy the lives we’re given. The Power of Having Fun teaches us to simply have fun, despite the common belief that fun itself may be “indulgent, even immature and selfish.”
The Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine N. Aron
Hypersensitivity is a trait that’s often met with a negative perception. However, The Highly Sensitive Person teaches readers to embrace their sensitivity and work with it to flourish in an overwhelming world.
Quarter-life by Satya Doye Byock
Quarter-life is an excellent reminder that so much in life changes between our twenties and thirties. However, the so-called “mid-life crisis” is inevitable. Staying grounded can keep us stable and successful when everything moves at 100 miles a minute.
Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat In Difficult Times by Katherine May
Wintering recounts a lonely and disheartening period in Katherine May’s life. Containing both lived experiences and references from mythology and ancient literature, May details how accepting your circumstances and finding solace during hard times may be the best way to care for our minds and souls.
The Power of Self-Discipline by Peter Hollins
Do you know the Reels sound explaining that discipline is more powerful than motivation? Yep, I’m fully on board. This book breaks down the science behind that truth and provides you with the practices and habits to keep committing to yourself, day after day. We all know that willpower is a limited resource and one that depletes faster the more we have to exercise it. But The Power of Self-Discipline helps make will-power habitual, helping you say no to what doesn’t align and yes to what really matters.
The French Art of Not Trying Too Hard by Ollivier Pourriol
May I present the idea that perhaps success doesn’t require all the hustle our society says it does? The French Art of Not Trying Too Hard encapsulates this idea by referencing French philosophers who believed that letting go may be the answer to heightened creativity and a more fulfilling life.
The Self-Care Year by Alison Davies
Nature is a cycle of change and rebirth, and caring for ourselves throughout the seasons calls for different ways to feel our best. This novel does a stellar job of teaching us how to realign ourselves based on the time of year and how to live more presently and connect with ourselves.
The Clarity Cleanse by Habib Sadeghi, DO
Dr. Sadeghi’s Clarity Cleanse is a journey of self-discovery to unlock the unresolved emotional issues hurting your health and success, and how to live with greater self-awareness. An advisor to Gwyneth Paltrow, Emily Blunt, Tim Robbins, Stella McCartney, and others, Dr. Sadeghi shows you how to turn obstacles into healing and energizing opportunities through a liberating 12-step guide to recognizing the emotional issues that hold you back.
The Well-Lived Life: A 102-Year-Old Doctor’s Six Secrets to Health and Happiness at Every Age by Gladys McGarey
What does it take to look back on your life without regret? The Well-Lived Life sets you up with transformative secrets to do exactly that—from someone who already has. Written by a centenarian, still-practicing doctor, this book is required reading. You’ll learn to embrace your life fully, move your body with passion, feel grounded in your purpose, learn from all of those around you, and most importantly—love openly and honestly.
The 5 Am Club by Robin Sharma
Romanticizing your morning routine is one of the best ways to up-level your life. The 5AM Club couldn’t do a better job of reiterating the importance of morning rituals. The book tells the fictional story of four characters who use the first hour of their day to get ahead and seek inspiration.
Hunting Discomfort by Sterling Hawkins
As the title suggests, this book encourages us to never shy away from discomfort, but rather to embrace it. Hawkins explores this idea of utilizing discomfort to fuel us on the most direct path to our goals—as successful athletes, entrepreneurs, and company founders do.
Free Time by Jenny Blake
In her book, Jenny essentially redefines what a successful business looks like. She takes a step-by-step approach to transforming your life from one full of work and stress to one enriched by simplicity and joy. As an entrepreneur, Jenny points out that even in the smallest of businesses, you can’t do everything yourself, which is why she discusses the importance of building a small team to help you along the way.
Good Morning, Monster by Catherine Gildiner
If you were fascinated and enthralled by Lori Gottlieb’s Maybe You Should Talk to Someone, I can’t recommend this book enough. Therapist and author Catherine Gildiner reflects on her work with five patients—a group she calls the “most heroic and memorable.” Their stories couldn’t be any different, and they cover a large swatch of the innumerable challenges people face throughout their lives. The book touches upon everything from narcissism to abandonment to unpacking the deeply-rooted trauma of childhood experiences.
Burnout by Emily and Amelia Nagoski
When it came out in 2015, Emily Nagoski’s breakthrough bestseller Come As You Are was a favorite and much-discussed topic among me and my college friends. Nagoski, a sex educator and researcher, channels that same expressive and explosive energy into her latest book, Burnout. Inspired by the recommendation of a friend who was part of my Come As You Are book club, I picked this up four years later. Having just entered the professional world, I was confused, stressed, and overwhelmed navigating this new stage of my life. And while your experience may be different, this book boasts universal takeaways bound to transform anyone’s life.
The Wisdom of Your Body by Hillary L. McBride
A Vancouver-based therapist, researcher, speaker, and feminist writer, Hillary McBride is revolutionizing the way we think and speak about body image and empowerment. I first discovered McBride’s work when I read her second book, Mothers, Daughters, and Body Image. Like many women, learning to make peace with my body (a part of myself I’ve been taught to vilify since I was born) has been a journey fraught with complexity. But through McBride’s writing, research, and compassionate approach, I’ve learned to create a healthier relationship with my body, my appearance, and myself.
Home Body by Rupi Kaur
Rupi Kaur is a poetic force. You’ve likely seen her work take social media by storm over the past several years. Grounded by the unique, but often universal, challenges and traumas countless people face, Kaur’s words are vulnerable, illuminating, and awe-inspiring. With home body now in my collection,I make sure to keep all three of her books within arm’s reach at all times. The lines provide a nearly-tangible comfort and inspire a strong sense of self-acceptance.
Quit Like a Woman by Holly Whitaker
The desire to explore a sober-curious lifestyle has grown significantly over the past few years. As the pandemic made some of us reflect on and reconsider our relationship to alcohol, we’ve become more aware of its ubiquity. In Quit Like a Woman, Whitaker unpacks our world’s obsession with drinking—pointing out its presence at just about every social gathering and function we attend. She shares her own personal journey toward sobriety while tracking the larger ways alcohol companies target women.
Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar by Cheryl Strayed
This book was recommended to me by a close friend, who said that the stories within helped her to heal from heartbreak and face the reality that everything in our future is unknown. In her ad hoc memoir, Cheryl Strayed teaches the lesson that all things in life have immense meaning, and the potential for rescue and growth is within everything that happens.
Creativity, Inc. by Ed Catmull
Ed Catmull, President and Co-founder (with Steve Jobs and John Lasseter) of Pixar Animation Studios and Disney Animation, brings you centerstage to the world of creativity in business and provides the tools necessary to help guide you and those around you to reach their full potential. Creativity, Inc. is a book for managers who want to lead their company and its employees to new heights, a manual for anyone who strives for originality, and the first-ever, all-access trip into the nerve center of Pixar Animation.
The Universe Has Your Back by Gabriele Bernstein
New York Times best-selling author, international speaker, and spirit junkie, Gaby Bernstein teaches you how to transform fear into faith in order to live a divinely guided life. Each story and lesson in The Universe Has Your Back guides you to release the blocks that are holding you back from what you long for: happiness, security, and clear direction. When the tragedies of the world seem overwhelming, this book will help guide you back to your true inner power.
Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before? by Julie Smith
This is a short book you can pick up when you have a question and get an answer for what needs to be done. Seize the day? Wait and ponder? Whether it’s your job or a relationship, there are four simple answers to your millions of questions. The Stuck Book is full of easily digestible wisdom.
Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins
“As you look back over the last ten years, were there times when a different decision would have made your life radically different from today, either for better or for worse?” Tony Robbins, the nation’s leader in the science of peak performance, shows you his most effective strategies and techniques for mastering your emotions, your body, your relationships, your finances, and your life.
The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo
Japanese cleaning consultant Marie Kondo takes tidying to a whole new level, promising that if you properly simplify and organize your home once, you’ll never have to do it again. With detailed guidance for determining which items in your house “spark joy” (and which don’t), this international bestseller featuring Tokyo’s most famous lifestyle phenomenon will help you clear your clutter and enjoy the unique magic of a tidy home—and the calm, motivated mindset it can inspire.
“The decision to pursue what sparks joy extends far beyond its first application in home tidying: it often opens the door for greater self-discovery and fulfillment. After a thorough tidying session, one of Marie’s clients quit her job and started a new business. Another client shared that she felt comfortable inviting friends to her home for the first time. Another client declared she had moved on from a destructive relationship that no longer sparked joy – and that it transformed her entire life.”
Originals by Adam Grant
Originals re-defines what being creative means by using specific examples of how persistence, transparency, critical thinking, and perspective can be brought together to change the world. What you’ll get is a self help book that feels like sitting down with a really smart older friend, who tells you countless stories of how creative people tackled seemingly impossible problems and solved them.
You Are a Badass by Jen Sincero
Jen Sincero is ridiculously hilarious and takes on a no-nonsense attitude to provide you with direct instructions for how to change your perspective on life to reach your dreams and convince yourself that not only do you deserve it, but you will get it if you try hard enough. Jen takes you on a wild joy ride to your own transformation, helping you create the money, relationships, career, and general all-around awesomeness you so desire.
The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
The Power of Now has sold over two million copies worldwide and has been translated into over 30 foreign languages. “Much more than simple principles and platitudes, the book takes you on an inspiring spiritual journey to find your true and deepest self. In the first chapter, Tolle introduces you to enlightenment and its natural enemy: the mind. He awakens you to your role as a creator of your pain, and shows you how to have a pain-free life by living fully in the present.”
The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk
Everyone I’ve talked to has either recommended The Body Keeps the Score to me or entered into a (sometimes) hours-long discussion about how truly life-changing this book was. Historically, our culture has had a limited understanding of trauma. Thankfully, the past decade has seen a shift in trauma becoming more widely discussed and less stigmatized. But there’s still so much we have to learn on a personal and community level about how trauma affects us.
How to Change by Katy Milkman
PSA: Change isn’t inherently a bad thing. Sure, if external influences (family, trends, people on social media) are causing us to change in a way that’s not in alignment with our inner truths, it’s time to pull back and reassess. But when change means you’re working toward something that’s on the path to where you want to find yourself, that’s a healthy sign of growth. How to Change does an effective job of pointing out what’s standing in the way of reaching your goals.
Unwinding Anxiety by Judson Brewer
As someone who experiences occasional anxiety myself, I can say that no other book has influenced the way I look at and understand anxiety quite like this. And while I’d take incremental growth over quick fixes any day, Dr. Brewer maps out the life-changing “hacks” that are not only easy to adopt but possible to sustain.
Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself by Nedra Glover
Raise your hand if you could set better boundaries. Historically, our culture has had the idea that setting boundaries are a bad thing. But in reality, learning to communicate your feelings and express your limits with others is an incredibly powerful tool. With friends and family a DM or phone call away and the idea of work-life balance being seemingly impossible to achieve, it’s more important now than ever to be able to say “no” and unapologetically express what you need.
Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies by Tara Schuster
I read this book when my confidence was at an all-time low. A friend had just finished it and passed along her copy, sharing how much it had changed her life. While I’m admittedly skeptical about buzzy reads and wellness trends that are supposed to fix all of my problems, this was one of the most transformative books I’ve ever cracked open. Schuster doesn’t mince words. Her tone is brutally honest throughout, but she pairs her direct and honest language with kindness, compassion, and empathy.
8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go by Jay Shetty
From the author of Think Like a Monk, Jay Shetty’s latest book seeks to make practical sense of love—a concept that for so many of us feels abstract and impossible to understand. He lays out specific and easy-to-apply tips to help you cultivate love and nurture stronger relationships. I love that he also takes the reader through the entire relationship cycle—from the first date to breaking up and starting over. It’s the roadmap you’ve always wanted but didn’t think was possible to put into words. Luckily, Jay Shetty has.
Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman
Isn’t it a good sign when the title of a book pulls you in immediately? Time management has always been something I’ve struggled with. I’ve bought all the planners, used all the apps, and blocked all of my social media when I need to focus. But truly, I haven’t found anything more effective than the advice shared in this book.
Your Time to Thrive by Marina Khidekel
In our mile-a-minute world, it can seem like the only way to succeed is by sacrificing our wellbeing for work promotions, praise, and productivity. But to thrive means something completely different. Instead of encouraging you to grind through the unending cycle of stress, Your Time to Thrive draws upon scientific research to help you make lasting, positive changes. The key? It’s all about taking micro steps.
The Sleep Revolution by Arianna Huffington
In The Sleep Revolution, Arianna Huffington points out that, more than that, a chronic lack of sleep negatively impacts everything from our relationships to our emotional wellbeing. Well-researched and truly transformative, this is the wake-up everyone needs to help you fall into restful, restorative sleep.
Rising Strong by Brené Brown
“When we deny our stories, they define us. When we own our stories, we get to write the ending.” Social scientist Brené Brown has ignited a global conversation on courage, vulnerability, shame, and worthiness. She tells us that Rising Strong is about getting to the heart of the most painful and uncomfortable moments we’ve ever experienced, getting honest about the way in which they’ve made us feel, and being bold enough to hold ourselves accountable to get up and grow from the past as we move into the future.
Can’t Hurt Me: Master Your Mind and Defy the Odds by David Goggins
David Goggins’s inspirational story reminds us to never settle into a pattern of unhappiness. It reveals how we can become comfortable with discomfort as fuel in bettering ourselves and achieving our goals. Motivated to become a Navy SEAL, Goggins details his story of living his life depressed and overweight, to becoming one of the world’s most successful marathon runners and triathletes.
10% Happier by Dan Harris
Dan Harris’s journey to silence the nagging voice in his head, which was also the root of his untamed anxiety, is one that I feel is highly relatable as a chronic overthinker. Meditation, Harris found, was the answer to rewiring his brain and releasing the feeling of anxiety from his daily life.
Comfortable with Uncertainty: 108 Teachings on Cultivating Fearlessness and Compassion by Pema Chodron
I picked up Comfortable with Uncertainty during one of the most significant transitions I have experienced. I’m so grateful that I found this gem amid change, heartbreak, and loss. This book explores Buddhism and its teachings which detail many essential life lessons, including that nothing in life will ever be certain. Coming to terms with that idea through mindfulness, meditation, and self-awareness is the key to finding happiness in the unknown.
Atomic Habits by James Clear
Your morning rituals and habits may have more impact than you think. James Clear took the world by storm with his book Atomic Habits, which teaches several important lessons, including the effect of “marginal gains” and that whether you win or lose, your goal stays the same, but the ability within yourself to reach that goal you is what you must evaluate.
Make Your Bed by Admiral William H. McRaven
This book preaches a similar narrative as Atomic Habits but from a highly-disciplined military background. Drawing inspiration from his commencement speech at the University of Texas at Austin, Admiral William H. McRaven uses the slogan “What starts here changes the world” to share his experience with Naval Seal Training and how it helped him overcome challenges throughout his life.
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
Based upon the traditional practices of the Toltecs, an indigenous tribe of Mexico, The Four Agreements tells us how to break out of the mundane and controlled lives that we have been living to decide for ourselves what is possible and how to live life unattached to the agenda of any other authority.
What A Time To Be Alone by Chidera Eggerue
What if being alone wasn’t viewed so negatively? What if it was an empowering and enlightening experience? Well, surprise! It can be. “The Sumflower,” will be your guide to understanding just how much you can gain from simply enjoying your own company.
Essentialism by Greg McKeown
Greg McKeown states, “Essentialism is a disciplined, systematic approach for determining where our highest point of contribution lies, then making execution of those things almost effortless.” This idea helps us reach the point of “less is more” in every area of our life to minimize stress and effort toward many daunting tasks.
This post was originally published on August 10, 2019, and has since been updated.
