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Let’s face it: who doesn’t want a healthy sex drive? After all, an active sex drive is linked to pleasure (duh!), pain relief, bladder control, better sleep, and more. Of course, a robust sex life also increases intimacy with your partner. Win, win, win. That said, it’s totally normal to feel fluctuations in your libido. In fact, you may be in the thick of a dry spell. Don’t fret—there are many ways to spice up your sex life! Including, meditation. But when it comes to improving your sex drive, you also want to consider your diet.

After all, passion requires sustained energy. Plus, no one wants digestive woes in the bedroom. Are you limiting foods like sugar and inflammatory oils? Are you minimizing your alcohol intake? All of these things impact your sexual desire. Without further ado, let’s dig into foods that increase libido.

Featured image from our interview with Sanetra Nere Longno by Michelle Nash.

Benefits of a Healthy Sex Life

Studies show that sex is extremely beneficial to our health. Sex activates a variety of neurotransmitters that impact not only our brains, but several other organs in our bodies. In other words, the perks of sex expand well beyond the bedroom. For women, the benefits of a healthy sex life can include: 

• Healthier immune system
• Strong pelvic floor (helpful for avoiding incontinence)
• Lower blood pressure
• Better heart health, including a lower risk for heart attack
• Improved self-esteem
• Decreased depression and anxiety
• Increased libido
• Better sleep
• Overall stress reduction

What contributes to a strong sexual desire?

What controls our libido (also called our sex drive) is actually a very complex web of biological, psychological, and social-cultural influences. Our hormones play a major role, too. All of these things come together to create the sex drive. A strong sexual desire can be correlated to routine exercise, high dopamine levels, reasonable self-esteem, normal testosterone, and eating foods that increase libido.

On the flip side, libido levels can be negatively affected by alcohol, drugs, anxiety, disease, fatigue, menopause, life circumstances, history of sexual abuse, religious traditions, and more.

Yes, It’s Normal For Your Libido to Fluctuate

Just as every person’s taste buds, cravings, and appetites differ, so does sex drive. We are all unique in this world—our sex drives are a reflection of our bio-individuality. Unsurprisingly, it’s well understood that libido varies between men and women. But it also fluctuates across seasons of our lives. Ultimately, your libido depends on a multitude of factors. Think: age, hormone levels, quality of life, and attraction to your partner (physical and emotional).

We can’t put a number—or name—to what a “normal” libido is. And having a low libido doesn’t necessarily qualify as a chronic illness. However, chat with your healthcare provider if you think you have a low libido. Ultimately, you have the power to decide how you feel about your own sex drive—as well as how it’s affecting your relationship. This goes without saying, but comparison is the thief of joy. What you see on HBO isn’t reality. Your sex life, your standards.

A Nutritious Diet Can Increase Your Libido

Having a healthy sex drive is linked to feeling physically and emotionally healthy, so it’s no surprise that the foods you eat play a role in boosting your sex life. While foods can play a role in a robust sexual desire, most of the research has less to do with libido and more to do with sexual performance.

At any rate, a nutritious diet can benefit your sex life in many ways, including improving your stamina in the bedroom. Furthermore, eating a diet rich in vegetables and lean proteins—and low in foods that contain sugar and saturated fat—can also help prevent disorders that affect your libido, like hormonal conditions.

15 Foods That Increase Libido

Without sounding like a broken record, what you put into your body determines how well it functions. By filling your body with unhealthy foods, inflammatory oils, and blood sugar-wrecking ingredients, sexual health takes a nosedive. Instead, focus on foods that increase libido. These are foods rich in zinc, antioxidants, B vitamins, and heart-healthy omega-3 fatty acids.

1. Oysters

While no scientific studies prove that oysters stimulate desire, they have been considered a natural aphrodisiac for hundreds of years. They’re widely known to increase sex drive and desire! Reason being, oysters are high in zinc. This compound increases blood flow, which may aid in blood flow to sex organs. Zinc—which is found in an array of animal and plant-based foods—may be especially important in male fertility, as it helps regulate testosterone levels. Can’t stand oysters? Clams will do!

Recipe: CRU’s Classic Cocktail Sauce & Horseradish Créme Fraîche

2. Chicken

Eating high-quality animal protein, such as beef, chicken, and pork, can help improve your sex drive (thanks to their compounds of specific amino acids). Foods high in protein can improve blood flow, such as L-arginine and zinc. Of course, smooth blood flow is crucial for a strong sexual response as well as getting the blood flowing to the right ­places.

Recipe: Grilled Yogurt-Marinated Chicken with All the Herbs

3. Salmon

Best known for its essential fatty acids and omega-3s, salmon’s nutritious fats help maintain a healthy heart and prevent plaque build-up in our arteries. As a result, blood can flow smoothly, which in turn keeps your sex drive thriving. Omega-3s can also raise dopamine levels in the brain, triggering arousal. When possible, choose wild-caught salmon.

Recipe: Grilled Salmon with Stone Fruit Salsa

4. Nuts

Cashews, almonds, and walnuts are chock-full of zinc—along with L-arginine—to get your blood flowing. Walnuts are doubly helpful, as they are also rich in omega-3s. Omega-3 fatty acids are linked to dopamine production, which helps improve libido.

Recipe: Camille’s Grain-Free Granola

5. Seeds

Here at Camille Styles, we love our seeds. Along with helping balance hormones, seeds contain vitamins and minerals that can help increase your sexual function. For example: pumpkin seeds, sunflower seeds, flaxseeds, and chia seeds. In fact, chia seeds are known to increase male libido. These have been shown to naturally boost testosterone thanks to the essential fatty acids that serve as building blocks for hormones.

Flax, on the other hand, is known to increase libido in women. Flaxseeds contain phytoestrogens that act very similarly to female hormones that are linked to a healthy sex life. Flax can be beneficial for women who have low estrogen levels, such as those experiencing menopause.

Recipe: Get Figgy With It Smoothie

6. Apples

Apples are rich in a compound called quercetin, an antioxidant known to promote blood circulation, treat erectile dysfunction, and manage low libido. In fact, this study reported a 14% reduction in erectile dysfunction in males who had a higher fruit intake. This may be due to their flavonoid content. In females, high blood pressure can lead to a lower libido and less interest in sex, particularly if it causes fatigue. Furthermore, low blood flow to the vagina can affect how the body responds to sexual activity. Overall, a diet rich in flavonoids can boost your overall health and keep your sex life healthy.

Recipe: Apple Walnut Salad

7. Beets

Next on the list of foods that increase libido—beets. Beetroot is rich in antioxidants and vitamins—a healthful addition to any diet. They’re also high in dietary nitrates, which means they could help boost your sex life. In essence, dietary nitrates expand the blood vessels, a process known as vasodilation, which improves blood flow. This has beneficial effects on muscle contraction. Because of this, some athletes use nitrates to boost performance (in and out of the bedroom).

Recipe: Grapefruit, Avocado, and Golden Beet Salad with Crunchy Chickpeas and Feta

8. Raspberries

Like apples, raspberries are rich in flavonoids. This phytochemical-rich (and blood sugar-friendly!) food may enhance both libido and sexual endurance. Raspberries are loaded with zinc, which is essential for sex. Women with appropriate levels of zinc have a high desire for sex. In males, zinc controls testosterone levels and also helps in sperm production.

Recipe: Raspberry Cocoa Energy Balls

9. Avocado

Avocados provide numerous benefits, including vitamin E and healthy fats—important for hormonal health. Plus, avocados contain magnesium and a mineral called boron, which studies indicate may benefit testosterone levels. Boron is a trace mineral that seems to influence testosterone metabolism in the body and may protect against testosterone degradation. Furthermore, vitamin E is associated with increased fertility.

Recipe: Avocado Toast with Kale Pesto and Crunchy Veggies

10. Eggs

Egg yolks are rich in healthy fats, protein, and selenium. Selenium, specifically, may help enhance the production of testosterone by activating certain pathways and the expression of certain genes. Eggs are also rich in vitamins B6 and B5. These help balance hormone levels and fight stress—two components that are crucial to a healthy libido.

Eggs are also a symbol of fertility and rebirth. Eating raw chicken eggs before sex is said to heighten libido and maximize energy levels. At any rate, eggs are highly nutritious. When possible, choose organic (or, ideally, pasture-raised) eggs.

Recipe: Mushroom, Spinach, and Goat Cheese Frittata

11. Chocolate

Chocolate is packed with romance-boosting compounds. These compounds include anandamide (the feel good chemical), phenylethylamine (the love chemical that triggers endorphin release), and theobromine (a central nervous system stimulant). Said differently: eating chocolate can increase libido by promoting the release of certain chemicals. Even if its effects are more psychological than biological, we’ll take any excuse to break off a few more squares.

Recipe: Chocolate Hazelnut Cookies

12. Maca

Have you heard of maca? Known as a superfood, maca is a Peruvian root that has long been used to increase strength, stamina, energy, fertility, and libido (for men and women). While research is still needed, maca root may alleviate SSRI-induced sexual dysfunction, including having beneficial effects on libido. Add a dash to your smoothie or coffee and see how you feel.

Recipe: Adaptogenic Hot Chocolate

13. Basil

This Italian herb is known to improve blood circulation, keep blood pressure and cholesterol levels in check, and it’s an excellent source of brain-boosting nutrients—magnesium and flavonoids. As mentioned, ingredients that are good for your heart (and blood flow!) improve libido as well. Basil also has a warming effect on the body, possibly enhancing arousal.

Recipe: Creamy Vegan Pasta with Tomatoes and Basil

Olive oil isn’t just famed as a heart-healthy food: it’s also an aphrodisiac. Yes, olive oil can help enhance the female orgasm! It works its magic by triggering the testosterone hormone, which induces sexual desires, thus enhancing orgasms. Research proves it. At any rate, adopting a Mediterranean-style diet can vastly improve your sexual prowess.

Recipe: Spinach and Ricotta Pizza with Garlicky Olive Oil

15. Carrots

Last but not least on the list of foods to increase libido? Carrots. This vegetable is known to help with balancing libido, thanks to its high amounts of beta-carotene. This compound supports the entire endocrine system, thereby supporting libido, boosting metabolism, and strengthening the kidneys. Furthermore, carrots help balance hormones—specifically, estrogen. Carrots contain unique undigestible fibers to help detox excess estrogen from the body.

Recipe: Honey Roasted Carrots with Spicy Citrus, Sage & Pepitas

By now, it’s a truth many women know well: Sex has not only the potential to be wildly pleasurable, but supportive of our well-being, too. But what about the effects of not having sex? That, we know less about—and is exactly why we’re diving deep into that question today.

For all the fantastic stories about how regularly engaging in sex can cut cortisol levels, improve sleep, decrease pain, and improve immunity, I’m occasionally left wondering about the effects of a break in regularity—aka a dreaded “dry spell.” So it was refreshing to stumble on this Well+Good article tackling just that: “This Is What Happens to Your Body When You Stop Having Sex.”

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Understanding the Effects of Not Having Sex

As a woman whose entire pre-college education was at Catholic schools, any and all sex-positive literature, podcasts, and beyond have been a beacon to me in my adult life. There was so much I appreciated about the Catholic school environment, but shedding the veil of shame around certain acts, particularly sexual ones, has been a valuable personal process, one aided by the idea that sexual health is about more than avoiding diseases and unplanned pregnancies. It’s also recognizing that sex should be an important and beneficial part of life.

Read on for some of the most notable discoveries, as well as insights from our team’s resident health and wellness expert, certified nurse midwife Lauren Zielinski (MSN, CNM), for those looking to break a dry spell.

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Blood Pressure and Stress Levels May Increase

In this case, what goes down eventually must come up—especially if you’re not getting the regular endorphin release sex provides. Fortunately, there are other active ways to achieve similar results. Consider substituting healthy, heart-pumping exercise for sessions between the sheets.

If stress continues to plague you, consider Zielinski’s advice:  “If you’re feeling really overwhelmed, insanely busy, and are never in the mood for sex and want to change that, then it’s time to activate your self-care defense mode. Consider dropping one or two commitments or activities that aren’t crucial, penciling in “me time” on your calendar, and remembering that it’s okay to say no to things. Take time to relax and take care of yourself.”

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For Those Going Through Menopause, the Vaginal Canal Can Tighten

As if menopause wasn’t fun enough, now you have to worry about the state of your vaginal canal. Board-certified OB/GYN Lucky Sekhon, MD, explained to Well+Good that when there are long periods without regular sex, the vaginal canal can tighten, “which can lead to thinning of vaginal tissue and predisposition towards tearing [and] bleeding during sex.”

This statement echoes an idea I heard last month during a call with Dr. Macrene Alexiades on the subject of upcoming beauty and wellness trends. Though she expects great strides ahead in terms of vaginal rejuvenation, she also stressed that the best way to maintain the vaginal lining is to have sex or masturbate regularly. 

And since the myth that painful sex is totally normal is something we’d like to leave in the past, consider a natural lubricant if things are feeling less than comfortable.

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It May Become Harder to Get Turned On

Like so many things, the desire for sex generally follows the rules of inertia: a person having sex will continue to desire sex, while a person not having sex may no longer have that need. “For some, this will have the effect that it becomes harder to get turned on, even if you want to,” sexologist Carol Queen, PhD shared with Well+Good.

That might sound a little scary, but the main takeaway from this small 2014 study published in The Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality is that the desire for sex can affect the quality of sex. Maintaining a love and longing for regular sex can be crucial to the overall experience.

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Let’s Talk (More) About Sex

There are a wide variety of reasons—all perfectly normal—why we might go through a dry spell. Some people also never experience sexual arousal at all. But if you feel you’re in a rut you’d like to get out of, consider Zielinski’s guide to boosting your libido. (Expect a few surprising ideas.) And consider her thoughts on when to try sex therapy, and even meditating before sex.

This post was originally published on February 15, 2022, and has since been updated.

A few years ago, a friend gave me something that amplified my life. “Try this,” she said as she handed me a small box, her mouth turned upward. Inside was a bottle of Foria Awaken Arousal Oil, a product meant to enhance female sexual pleasure, alone or with company. Had I been having sex or even feeling sexual at the time, I would have ripped it open that night. Finding the best lubricants and intimacy oils intrigued me.

It took me a while to try it. When I finally did with my now partner, I felt like I was in the last scene of Fight Club, where Ed Norton holds Helena Bonham Carter’s hand as the buildings fall. Everything I’d known about feeling sexual came crashing down and, in its place, entered a Technicolor world of pleasure to explore. 

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The Best Lubricants for Every Desire

“What Foria has done is prioritize female pleasure by deeply understanding what activates it, what keeps it going, and where pleasure comes from,” says Kiana Reeves, chief content officer for Foria Wellness and a somatic sexology and intimacy educator. “We haven’t been taught about how important our arousal is.”

Reeves is answering all my questions about the best lubricants and intimacy oils over Zoom. My queries are rapid-fire. Never have I been more curious about a collection of products. In the past year, intimacy oils and lubricants have catapulted my sex life, I tell her. My orgasms are stronger. My connection to my partner is deeper. Why is that? I ask. 

“It’s helping your body just do what it’s meant to do,” responds Reeves, specifically talking about intimacy oils. “That’s why it’s so powerful. People start to notice the power of their bodies.”

To understand the deeper functioning behind these products, as well as the difference between an intimacy oil and a lubricant, I asked Reeves about it all. (Also, if you’re curious about trying a new product but don’t know how to broach the subject with your partner, read on.)

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Your Guide to Intimacy Oils

Nobody had been focusing on female arousal. Our erectile tissue structures are the same as someone with a penis, and they’re dispersed in different areas, but they light up at different times. So someone with a female anatomy has an arousal trajectory that is different from someone with a penis. We focus on female pleasure with these different products and components. One is our Awaken Arousal Oil, which helps to physically get blood flow to the genitals to enhance arousal and pleasure. These active botanicals work to help to get you as aroused as possible. 

In tandem with arousal, which is the physical component of pleasure, you have the desire component. For many people, what gets in the way of their desire is either discomfort, pain, or a feeling that they’re not ready. What our Awaken oil does is it works from the body up. You start to activate your body first. From there, you start to retrain the nervous system and your relationship with sexual pleasure, either with yourself or with a partner. You go, oh, not only does this feel good, it feels amazing!

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How do lubricants work?

The vaginal tissues and vulva mucosal membrane need to be wet to enjoy touch, and so there isn’t too much friction. Otherwise, those tender membranes can tear easily. So a lubricant, even if you are naturally a well-lubricated person, is important because it helps protect the integrity of your tissues. Many clients I’ve worked with have experienced numbness, pain, and scar tissue from poorly lubricated sex, either intravaginally or otherwise. 

“What’s so exciting is there’s always more pleasure to explore.” – Kiana Reeves.

Studies show that pleasure will increase just by using lube alone for all people involved. So lube is amazing to have on hand. What we did with ours—our Intimacy Sex Oil—is make it the cleanest available because lubes have historically contained chemicals that are bad for the vulva and vagina. Also, our lube is for vaginal and rectal use.

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Are there any rules for using an intimacy oil or lubricant?

No rules. The cool thing, and I say this particularly about Awaken because it’s universal for solo play to partner play to party play, is that it’s about understanding that your pleasure is in your own hands. You can notice where you’re at. Maybe you’re not yet highly aroused, so you might massage yourself or have a partner massage you. It’s taking the time to massage the labia, the clitoris, or the thighs. It’s about just being with that part of your body and allowing it to open in its own time. 

Also, the beautiful thing is none of the [Foria] products are gender specific. They’re anatomy-specific because we’re working with a particular anatomy that hasn’t been studied or understood as much as others. 

Editor’s note: Some oils and lubricants are not compatible with certain condoms, so be sure to do your research for what’s important to you and your partner(s).

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What to keep in mind when looking for an intimacy or arousal oil and a lubricant

The main thing is that it’s clean and natural. These are still marketing terms where there’s no standard for being able to say “clean.” Look for ingredients you recognize. If they’re plants, are they organic? I would also look for how much education the company is offering. Peruse the website to see if they’re invested in their mission or if they’re making a product because it’s easy and cheap. A brand invested in its mission will be invested in and able to stand by its formulations. On our products, we have a QR code where you can see the batch tests we’ve done, which check for all types of toxins, pesticides, and heavy metals. 

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What if someone is curious to try an oil or lube with a partner but they have reservations about suggesting it? What are your tips for starting the conversation?

The larger conversation here is talking about sex with your partner—about what you love and what may be harder to discuss, such as what you want more of, what doesn’t feel so good, or what you’re struggling with. Talking about sex, in general, can be vulnerable, and when you’re bringing in a new product, that’s an added layer. It’s important to know that your partner wants you to feel pleasure—whether or not you are nervous to share with them. And you also want your partner to experience pleasure.

Think of it like the Oreo metaphor, where it’s sandwiched between two wonderful positive things and then the meat of it, which is the question or the desire, is in the middle. You can say positive things like, ‘I love the sex we’re having.’ ‘It feels so amazing.’ ‘You are an amazing lover.’ And then you can say what you’re experiencing or wanting more of. ‘I’m finding that I want to explore more of what my own body’s capable of.’ Or, ‘I haven’t shared this with you, but it’s hard for me to reach climax and here’s what I think might be able to help me.’

Keeping the idea of inviting them in is beneficial for everyone. It’s truly about wanting to explore more with one another.

The Best Lubricants for Deeper Arousal and Pleasure

Every product is curated with care by our editors and we’ll always give an honest opinion, whether gifted or purchased ourselves. If you buy something through our links, we may earn a small commission at no cost to you.

This post was originally published on October 27th, 2022, and has since been updated.

Let’s face it: who doesn’t want a healthy sex drive? After all, an active sex drive is linked to pleasure (duh!), pain relief, bladder control, better sleep, and more. Of course, a robust sex life also increases intimacy with your partner. Win, win, win. That said, it’s totally normal to feel fluctuations in your libido. In fact, you may be in the thick of a dry spell. Don’t fret—there are many ways to spice up your sex life! Including, meditation. But when it comes to improving your sex drive, you also want to consider your diet.

After all, passion requires sustained energy. Plus, no one wants digestive woes in the bedroom. Are you limiting foods like sugar and inflammatory oils? Are you minimizing your alcohol intake? All of these things impact your sexual desire. Without further ado, let’s dig into foods that increase libido.

Featured image from our interview with Sanetra Nere Longno by Michelle Nash.

Benefits of a Healthy Sex Life

Studies show that sex is extremely beneficial to our health. Sex activates a variety of neurotransmitters that impact not only our brains, but several other organs in our bodies. In other words, the perks of sex expand well beyond the bedroom. For women, the benefits of a healthy sex life can include: 

• Healthier immune system
• Strong pelvic floor (helpful for avoiding incontinence)
• Lower blood pressure
• Better heart health, including a lower risk for heart attack
• Improved self-esteem
• Decreased depression and anxiety
• Increased libido
• Better sleep
• Overall stress reduction

What contributes to a strong sexual desire?

What controls our libido (also called our sex drive) is actually a very complex web of biological, psychological, and social-cultural influences. Our hormones play a major role, too. All of these things come together to create the sex drive. A strong sexual desire can be correlated to routine exercise, high dopamine levels, reasonable self-esteem, normal testosterone, and eating foods that increase libido.

On the flip side, libido levels can be negatively affected by alcohol, drugs, anxiety, disease, fatigue, menopause, life circumstances, history of sexual abuse, religious traditions, and more.

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Yes, It’s Normal For Your Libido to Fluctuate

Just as every person’s taste buds, cravings, and appetites differ, so does sex drive. We are all unique in this world—our sex drives are a reflection of our bio-individuality. Unsurprisingly, it’s well understood that libido varies between men and women. But it also fluctuates across seasons of our lives. Ultimately, your libido depends on a multitude of factors. Think: age, hormone levels, quality of life, and attraction to your partner (physical and emotional).

We can’t put a number—or name—to what a “normal” libido is. And having a low libido doesn’t necessarily qualify as a chronic illness. However, chat with your healthcare provider if you think you have a low libido. Ultimately, you have the power to decide how you feel about your own sex drive—as well as how it’s affecting your relationship. This goes without saying, but comparison is the thief of joy. What you see on HBO isn’t reality. Your sex life, your standards.

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A Nutritious Diet Can Increase Your Libido

Having a healthy sex drive is linked to feeling physically and emotionally healthy, so it’s no surprise that the foods you eat play a role in boosting your sex life. While foods can play a role in a robust sexual desire, most of the research has less to do with libido and more to do with sexual performance.

At any rate, a nutritious diet can benefit your sex life in many ways, including improving your stamina in the bedroom. Furthermore, eating a diet rich in vegetables and lean proteins—and low in foods that contain sugar and saturated fat—can also help prevent disorders that affect your libido, like hormonal conditions.

15 Foods That Increase Libido

Without sounding like a broken record, what you put into your body determines how well it functions. By filling your body with unhealthy foods, inflammatory oils, and blood sugar-wrecking ingredients, sexual health takes a nosedive. Instead, focus on foods that increase libido. These are foods rich in zinc, antioxidants, B vitamins, and heart-healthy omega-3 fatty acids.

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1. Oysters

While no scientific studies prove that oysters stimulate desire, they have been considered a natural aphrodisiac for hundreds of years. They’re widely known to increase sex drive and desire! Reason being, oysters are high in zinc. This compound increases blood flow, which may aid in blood flow to sex organs. Zinc—which is found in an array of animal and plant-based foods—may be especially important in male fertility, as it helps regulate testosterone levels. Can’t stand oysters? Clams will do!

Recipe: CRU’s Classic Cocktail Sauce & Horseradish Créme Fraîche

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2. Chicken

Eating high-quality animal protein, such as beef, chicken, and pork, can help improve your sex drive (thanks to their compounds of specific amino acids). Foods high in protein can improve blood flow, such as L-arginine and zinc. Of course, smooth blood flow is crucial for a strong sexual response as well as getting the blood flowing to the right ­places.

Recipe: Grilled Yogurt-Marinated Chicken with All the Herbs

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3. Salmon

Best known for its essential fatty acids and omega-3s, salmon’s nutritious fats help maintain a healthy heart and to prevent plaque build-up in our arteries. As a result, blood can flow smoothly, which in turn keeps your sex drive thriving. Omega-3s can also raise dopamine levels in the brain, triggering arousal. When possible, choose wild-caught salmon.

Recipe: Grilled Salmon with Stone Fruit Salsa

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4. Nuts

Cashews, almonds, and walnuts are chock-full of zinc—along with L-arginine—to get your blood flowing. Walnuts are doubly helpful, as they are also rich in omega-3s. Omega-3 fatty acids are linked to dopamine production, which helps improve libido.

Recipe: Orange-Walnut Olive Oil Cake

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5. Seeds

Here at Camille Styles, we love our seeds. Along with helping balance hormones, seeds contain vitamins and minerals that can help increase your sexual function. For example: pumpkin seeds, sunflower seeds, flaxseeds, and chia seeds. In fact, chia seeds are known to increase male libido. These have been shown to boost testosterone, naturally, thanks to the essential fatty acids that serve as building blocks for hormones.

Flax, on the other hand, is known to increase libido in women. Flaxseeds contain phytoestrogens that act very similarly to female hormones that are linked to a healthy sex life. Flax can be beneficial for women who have low estrogen levels, such as those experiencing menopause.

Recipe: Get Figgy With It Smoothie

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6. Apples

Apples are rich in a compound called quercetin, an antioxidant known to promote blood circulation, treat erectile dysfunction, and manage low libido. In fact, this study reported a 14% reduction in erectile dysfunction in males who had a higher fruit intake. This may be due to their flavonoid content. In females, high blood pressure can lead to a lower libido and less interest in sex, particularly if it causes fatigue. Furthermore, low blood flow to the vagina can affect how their body responds to sexual activity. Overall, a diet rich in flavonoids can boost your overall health and keep your sex life healthy.

Recipe: Apple Walnut Salad

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7. Beets

Next on the list of foods that increase libido: beets. Beetroot is rich in antioxidants and vitamins—a healthful addition to any diet. They’re also high in dietary nitrates, which means they could help boost your sex life. In essence, dietary nitrates expand the blood vessels, a process known as vasodilation, which improves blood flow. This has beneficial effects on muscle contraction. Because of this, some athletes use nitrates to boost performance (in and out of the bedroom).

Recipe: Grapefruit, Avocado, and Golden Beet Salad with Crunchy Chickpeas and Feta

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8. Raspberries

Like apples, raspberries are rich in flavonoids. This phytochemical-rich (and blood sugar-friendly!) food may enhance both libido and sexual endurance. Raspberries are loaded with zinc, which is essential for sex. Women with appropriate levels of zinc have a high desire for sex. In males, zinc controls testosterone levels and also helps in sperm production.

Recipe: Raspberry Cocoa Energy Balls

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9. Avocado

Avocados provide numerous benefits, including vitamin E and healthy fats—important for hormonal health. Plus, avocados contain magnesium and a mineral called boron, which studies indicate may benefit testosterone levels. Boron is a trace mineral that seems to influence testosterone metabolism in the body and may protect against testosterone degradation. Furthermore, vitamin E is associated with increased fertility.

Recipe: Avocado Toast with Kale Pesto and Crunchy Veggies

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10. Eggs

Egg yolks are rich in healthy fats, protein, and selenium. Selenium, specifically, may help enhance the production of testosterone by activating certain pathways and the expression of certain genes. Eggs are also rich in vitamins B6 and B5. These help balance hormone levels and fight stress—two components that are crucial to a healthy libido.

Eggs are also a symbol of fertility and rebirth. In fact, eating raw chicken eggs prior to sex is said to heighten libido and maximize energy levels. At any rate, eggs are highly nutritious. When possible, choose organic (or, ideally, pasture-raised) eggs.

Recipe: Mushroom, Spinach, and Goat Cheese Frittata

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11. Chocolate

Chocolate is packed with romance-boosting compounds. These compounds include anandamide (the feel good chemical), phenylethylamine (the love chemical that triggers endorphin release), and theobromine (a central nervous system stimulant). Said differently: eating chocolate can increase libido by promoting the release of certain chemicals. Even if its effects are more psychological than biological, we’ll take any excuse to break off a few more squares.

Recipe: Chocolate Hazelnut Cookies

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12. Maca

Have you heard of maca? Known as a superfood, maca is a Peruvian root that has long been used to increase strength, stamina, energy, fertility, and libido (for men and women). While research is still needed, maca root may alleviate SSRI-induced sexual dysfunction, including having beneficial effects on libido. Add a dash to your smoothie or coffee and see how you feel.

Recipe: Adaptogenic Hot Chocolate

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13. Basil

This Italian herb is known to improve blood circulation, keep blood pressure and cholesterol levels in check, and it’s an excellent source of brain-boosting nutrients—magnesium and flavonoids. As mentioned, ingredients that are good for your heart (and blood flow!) improve libido as well. Basil also has a warming effect on the body, possibly enhancing arousal.

Recipe: Creamy Vegan Pasta with Tomatoes and Basil

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Olive oil isn’t just famed as a heart-healthy food: it’s also an aphrodisiac. Yes, olive oil can help enhance the female orgasm! It works its magic by triggering the testosterone hormone, which induces sexual desires, thus enhancing orgasms. Research proves it. At any rate, adopting a Mediterranean-style diet can vastly improve your sexual prowess.

Recipe: Spinach and Ricotta Pizza with Garlicky Olive Oil

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15. Carrots

Last but not least on the list of foods to increase libido? Carrots. This vegetable is known to help with balancing libido, thanks to its high amounts of beta-carotene. This compound supports the entire endocrine system, thereby supporting libido, boosting metabolism, and strengthening the kidneys. Furthermore, carrots help balance hormones—specifically, estrogen. Carrots contain unique undigestible fibers to help detox excess estrogen from the body.

Recipe: Honey Roasted Carrots with Spicy Citrus, Sage & Pepitas

This post was originally published on August 15, 2022, and has since been updated.